My dear brother… …
There is no creature in this world that can be so much deceived by the beauty of woman but you brother, right? So in this article, I would like to share my thought about Physical beauty and the marriage, please don’t get offended while you’re reading this article, thank you.
Brother,
Marrying a beautiful girl is not something wrong. It can strengthen your heart and shield you from falling into “ wrong and bad “ thing.
You can find so many beautiful woman with many kind of types, shapes and styles from oriental face, European, American, Asian, Arabian, etc. You can find woman with the natural beauty to woman with the fake beauty.
Do you know brother how many woman being so much obsessed by the word of beauty? They can sacrifice everything to become more and more beautiful. Women have to get through painful diets. Some of them do cosmetic surgery.
They apply tons of chemical make up daily. They have to spend thousands and millions rupiah or even dollars just to get tummy tuck to maintain flat and beautiful stomach, they meet the surgeon to create beautiful butt, beautiful breasts,They turn freak out about their beauty.
Imagine brother,
What if you fall for this kind of woman?
All of them just superficial beauty, No matter what, no matter how much money you have ,those beauty will slowly fade away through the time.This is the work of the nature. Your beautiful wife can ‘t be young and fresh forever, she is getting old day by day. Someone who known as the beautiful princes will not always become princes, soon will be another younger beautiful princess who will look more beautiful than her, there always sky above the sky
My dear brother who marriage only for beauty….
Do you remember the day finally you could marry your beautiful wife? … You feel so proud in front of your friends, relatives and colleagues. All wondered what thing special about you that you could marry such a beautiful lady … All people stare at you with jealousy… How lucky man on earth you were… You felt like flying… what a such a good fortune you had.
But, how do you feel now brother, can that beauty really strengthen your marriage?
Anyway day by day her beauty becomes something not special anymore. You see her every day, sometimes when she gets angry and arguing with you , you feel her beauty just vanish, even another woman look more attractive and beautiful than her. And later on that flat stomach just mess up after she delivered babies. Her smooth skins just getting wrinkle…
Beauty that is not framed by the inner beauty. That beauty will only be a disaster, Your marriage will turn like the hell on earth, full of fighting, disagreement, especially when anytime you advice her about her “beauty business”
You already unjust to your children by give them a wrong mother, that they will grow up in the hand of woman who care more for her physically beauty than care for her children.
Finally when you grow old, when your sexually desire decrease you will know what you actually need.Someone that can bring peace in your heart, a true life partner that bring peace in your heart, someone who will be hand in hand ....help each other to get closer to your Creator.
That day you will find out the physically beauty is not everything, there is something more crucial and fundamental for the happiness of marriage.. that is her deen and her commitment in her belief…. Her personality, her inner beauty, her brain, her heart, her sincerity, her truth, her lovely nature….. those beauty inshaAllah will be stronger and be part of her that will keep her beautiful through the time.. bring you the comfort and the happiness… that beauty will be the true beauty that make your soul complete…
"When the beauty fade, nothing last forever"
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