Singers must idolize other singers before them to inspire them in order to move forward. As an example, in multiple occasions, Adele has stated that she idolizes Beyonce. It is open to interpret that Adele later on musical success is also influenced by the fact that she idolizes Beyonce. It makes her adopts all of Beyonce's good traits like work ethic, therefore, making her a diva too.
That is why idolizing a successful person or having someone as an inspiration is good for adolescence in their effort to find their true self. The hope is to finally be able to sort out which traits actually belong to them, and which are their idols'. Worst comes to worst, being successful like their idols is no harm, no foul.
Being your children's best friends is very important when they are going through a journey of identity search. One of the ways that could allow you to be just that is by travelling together with them. If you would like to make them happy, ask them out on a family trip or a mother-daughter bonding trip.
If this sounds like a good plan, an experiential study tour would be a perfect kind of travelling for your kid's journey to adulthood. Searching for identities means they also are searching for what they want to do in life, and an experiential study tour would take them to emerging cities abroad to allow them to try on exciting yet beneficial experiential activities based on multiple academic subjects, such as circus training, acting workshop, journalism course, and business workshop.
By doing these activities, hopefully, they will be able to unlock their passion, know what they want to be in real life, thus, find their true self.
Experiential study tours bound for London, Tokyo, and Sydney are available at Vooya "Learning without Borders".Â
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