Is it Good for Being Feminist?

Some of people think if being feminist means you are hate a man , nothing at all , it was a wrong prespective being a woman is a destiny and wonderful at the same time cause you are born to be mommy and  . who doesn't love the kids ?

Feminism is an ideology who thinks that a woman should be equal to a man which is now days there are so many powerfull girls who decide her life to be an independent woman ,  regerdless that she is a woman. They don't colonize a man but the try their best to be equal as a man can be.
Feminism in europe started from 16-18 M , in this period woman considered irrational cause they only rely on her feelings and a man only for taking care. Not going to work and earn money , however a woman should to be employed and earn money.

This happened because of the influence of church dogma which in this century become the number one policy . this situation makes some of philoshopers make a criticsm of discriminatory church policies . equality issues began to spread and began to discussed between europe .

we can looking back into the history on ancient egypt cleopatra being a Queen of the egypt empire and she became a leader of her country. She is smart , beauty and independent . so i've been thinking a lot if she is one of a feminist but no with the others , a people from a low class doesn't have a same chance as her maybe because she is a princess.

And lets see more about Khadijah before she married with a prophet, she is an independent woman even she is a single mom. As we can looking back to an history she is an enterpreneur which is in this period she is the success ones. She made a history,  she is not a feminist but she did it cause she can and why not?

And in indonesian someone who has a special place in every woman as a role model is R.A kartini's she is a noble descent cause her father was a regent of jepara , when she is young she got an education at ELS (europese Legare school) in this school she studied dutch . but when she is turn 12 years old , she can't going to school cause she will be marriage . and she tried her best to fighting for women's rights . when she got married she don't stop . until her husband agree with her and give his permission to kartini and support her to start build a school for a girls. Now we remind her struggle every years on April 21th .

Nowdays we can see there are so many women who can be a leader like a governor , minister , bussiness woman , etc .

I take a conclusion now a days woman can take a man places but she can't be a man .

Cause girls forever being girls and a man forever be a man.

Even she is being an independent one ,  got her job and earn her own money . she is would always be you wife don't be afraid cause she knew how to manage her times and her lifes. so from now you should to be her support system and remind her if she is wrong.

and for you girls is it good to being independent one but don't forget the one who you loves and the one who loves you.