*) Perseverance:Â Whether they're working toward outward goals or on inner coping strategies, they're action-oriented - Â they trust in the process and don't give up.
*) Internal Locus of Control:Â They believe that they, rather than outside forces, are in control of their own lives.
*) Optimism:Â They see the positives in most situations and believe in their own strength
*) Support:Â While they tend to be strong individuals, they know the value of social support and are able to surround themselves with supportive friends and family.
*) Sense of Humor:Â They're able to laugh at life's difficulties.
*) Perspective:Â Resilient people are able to learn from their mistakes (rather than deny them), see obstacles as challenges, and allow adversity to make them stronger. They can also find meaning in life's challenges rather than seeing themselves as victims.
*) Spirituality:Â Being connected to your spiritual side has been connected with stronger emotional resilience, especially if you're internally connected and not just going through the motions of attending services. (This doesn't mean that people who aren't spiritual can't be resilient, just that this connection has been found.)
