Teenagers face real concerns, between 13 and 19 years of age, daily as this is the most awkward growth stage of their lives. All the time, teenagers exposed to some overwhelming external and internal struggles. They pass it through and are expected to cope with hormonal changes, puberty, social and parental forces, work and school pressures, and so on. Many teens feel misunderstood. It is vital that their feelings and thoughts are validated and that the validation comes from their parents. Parents need to approach their children with carefully and in a friendly manner to discuss their concerns.
As the saying "Love is Blind." Â you may not realize you are in an unhealthy relationship because such partner behavior continues to be normalized. Your partner's negativity has become a daily basis so you don't feel the urgency to evaluate their behavior. Sometimes, it happens because most abuser makes promises or experiences that they've never felt before so that their toxic behavior seems like didn't affect them at all.
At one point you may be tired and need a shoulder to lean on, then you remember that your partner is not a comfortable place for you to tell stories. You then make an alibi "Maybe he's tired," or when he starts to be rude in your mind saying, "He'll change later," etc. You keep saying "It's okay, I'm fine." even though your wound is wide open. That is the first sign that you are trapped in this unhealthy relationship. On the other hand, you are emotionally attached to your partner as if he is giving you a future even though your hands, feet, or cheeks are blue, so be aware. Maybe you stuck in Stockholm syndrome.
In addition to toxic relationships, bullying is also included in juvenile delinquency, because bullying is any form of oppression or violence that is carried out intentionally by one person or group of people who are stronger or more powerful toward other people, intending to hurt and do it continuously. the way to deal with bullying is Early Detection of Bullying Actions.
Providing Socialization Regarding Bullying
Providing Support to Victims
Making Firm Rules about Bullying
Set a Good Example or Example
After bullying occurs, victims of bullying often suffer emotionally and socially. As a result, they feel they have low self-esteem due to bad things that happen to them. Victims also tend to experience a wide range of emotions, such as anger, helplessness, frustration, loneliness, and isolation. In the end, depression can not be avoided. If there is no intervention, the child may develop a condition called learned helplessness. This situation arises when victims of bullying believe that they cannot do anything to change the situation.
The victim then stops trying to fight back and the cycle of depression gets worse. Ultimately, children feel hopeless and believe they have no way out. Continuing depression then triggers health problems. For example, children become sick more often due to constant anxiety. Victims of bullying can also suffer from serious illnesses, an inability to focus, and bad social relationships. People with depression will find it difficult to choose a good lifestyle. They may not be able to sleep or eat well and may be reluctant to exercise. In turn, these factors put a person at risk of dying prematurely. so what we can do for victims of depression is to do routines.
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