Relationships (love, people, and everything in between)

[caption id="" align="alignleft" width="360" caption="How I Met Your Mother"][/caption] *Love There are three types of relationships I’ve known (HIMYM reference), yeah I know it’s just based on some TV series and it’s not as scientific as rocket sciences (doh……) But so what, I just think it’s fun to share this kind of stuff’s? Before I bored my self (and you of course!), let’s started to it shall we? A) Marshall & Lily types (more than a year relationships….. *6 year*) -you met each other for the first time -developed an interest with each other -get attracted and fall in love with each other (and do your “first time” with each other) And time go bye you got engaged…, having some obstacles along the way (if being left by your fiancé “counts”, and experiencing for months of “hell” and despair) Eventually you manage to went through that and finally got married (Marshall and Lily Forever :D) Comment: Auntie Lily: “we just do it only with each other” Marshall: *smiled at lily* Uncle Barney: “OMG!! They just “do” it only with each other” *Brrr…..* Fxn: “Hahahaha, so what Barney…. It’s so romantic you know?” B) Ted & Robin (Less than a year relationship) Hmm….. They just meet each for the first time (and the both of them, had some relationships before and lost their “first time” with someone else) It’s an instant relationships (the guy’s/Ted just said “I love you” in the end of their first date) and the girl/Robin just think it’s silly/weird (Not as gallant like Ted think ^^”) Then they just getting along as friends, after that buddies……. (and it needed quite a long time) before you know it Robin (finally) fall with Ted too, but the weird part is eventough Ted had confirmed his feeling to her. Robin have (still) worried with her own feeling (You can’t just said “I love you” too everyone, if you don’t really really mean it right?) In the end Robin confirmed his feeling for Ted, and said that sacred word “I love you” and their now officially a “real” couple. Comment: Barney: “So you and Robin are finally going out together and officially a couple eh? Congrats… let’s go this night and hit the club tonight will be Legend…wait for it Dary!” Ted: “Sorry bro, me and Robin had another plan for tonight” Barney: “Oh darn it…. And Marshall and Lily also have plan tonight ><. What should I do now?” Fxn: “Swt2 hehehe, why don’t find “someone special” for once Barney, like Ted and Marshall?” Barney: “What!!!! Hahahahahahaha……. I had a six hour policy on that topics, so sorry compadre. How about you Fix, want to be my wingman? Fxn: Sorry bro…. I’m already taken and I’ve already had a plan tonight with someone *wink* Barney: OMG… The world is becoming more and more “normal”, it’s INSANE!! *Yelled to everybody* C) Barney and all the Girls (6 hours or 12 hours….. depends with???) He’s an agile guy, no time for one gurl…. Eventough he looks very mature and confident with himself (charm, own a apartement and six or seven digits income…..????? still unclear but, he’s absolutely rich) deep inside he’s a fragile guy’s that’ve been hurt in the past (Barney: I’m NOT!!!) and just seeking comfort for himself by being tough (B: I’m STILL NOT!!!!!) But for the meanwhiles he (still) trying to learns the meaning of “relationships” (B: “still not!”) and maybe someday he will find someone to share that feeling (B:…….., I’m going to the clubs, anyone wanna joined me…. Please anyone?”) Comment: Barney: “I’m not like that ‘kay, I just think settling down with (just) one person in your life…. It’s not fun, and it isn’t my style” *Smile* Marshall & Lily, Ted & Robin: “Yeah we know that Barney, and we still love you bro ^^” Barney: Ouch ouch ouch….. Enough with this sentimental talk, you guys give me the chill *Brrr….* You understand too right Fix?” Fxn: I understand bro, and I will changed my writing about you(but, I didn’t >:) ) Fun fact (It’s supposed to be fun, so read it out loud…. While laughing :P) Their first time: Marshall: 17 years old, with Lily (and only with her till now) Lily: ???, with Scooter and Marshall (actually her “real” first time is with Marshall, and with Scooter is just by the “lobby” so it didn’t counts) Ted: 16 years old, not with Robin (with a girls….. and she just dump him after that) Robin: 16 years old, not with Ted (with a guy name Brian, and he just played at the “lobby”… so it didn’t counts) Barney: 23 years old, with her mom friends (45 years old, unattractive lady…. *Argh… the horror*) Comment: Fxn: “Hmm… maybe because of this dreadfull experience, he (Barney) choosen to make comfort by being always “single”….” Fxn and Ted: “Okay kid’s if you want to do your first time before married, remember this simple advices; they always says ‘I love you’ before they do it (“but they don’t), they always says they will call you and will be responsible if something wrong happens (but they don’t), and they do it because they love you and will marry you someday (but, they don’t and it never happens)…………. So what I’m trying to said is, people just said things to other people just to make it happens. It’s what a seventy years old (or less) boy’s said to a girl, and it’s not only the bad boys type (even the good guys too) *Friendships There are two types of friendships that I know (despite there are of course other types of friendships): The first is the Friends in a box type This is the type of friendships where you meet with other peoples and talk to them for a while, and along the way you just forget them (“Okay-okay I think I remember, but ….. Who are you again?”) This usually happen with your old school friends that you rarely talk to when you was in school (and sometimes the peoples you always teases or bullied a long time ago), new friends you’ve meet in an online networking (just add randomly, talk for a day or two and you just keep it as number in your friendlist), peoples you meet in street while you go to work or school….. etc PS: I’m using the terms (friends in a box) from “Fight Club”, this is when the leading role character sit in a flight and started a casually conversation with a stranger that sit beside of him. “Friends in a box is like an in-flight (travel bus) food, you eat it along the way and when you finished (or arrived at your destination) you just throw it away” The seconds is the Buddies type You go around and meeting all sort of people in your life, some are just a friends, some will become your rival, some will became your significant other (Wife/Husband) and just a few of them will became your buddies. Buddies is: -Someone who you like to talk casually about everything (and sometimes talked rambling/non-sense stuff’s) -Someone who you take to go out and just have fun together, without you have to pays their bills (not like dating) -Someone who you just like to teased and (sometimes) called silly name, just because they will teased and called you back and the most important thing is…… -Someone who you like to share personal stuffs with without a fears of being judged, blamed and being worried to much because of this (You sometimes don’t share with your couple problems, just caused you don’t want to make them worried too much) PS: Whenever you meet someone who attracted (sometimes just a little “overattracted”) to you, don’t always think that they had a crush to you (Doh…. Are you that popular?) …….. Maybe they just want to be your Buddies ( or just a serial killer that looking for a new victim, or some ‘players” that looking for a new prey ><”) *Everything in between -Not saying “No/Stop!!!” to someone can be misinterpreted/misguided, as confirmed “Yes/okay “ to some people. (So don’t always use signal, just say “No/Stop” if you want to reject or someone keep bugging you over and over) -The based of every relationships (Friendships or else) is trust and honesty, cause if you don’t trust them why the hell are you keeping along with them in the first place. -Just because you are honest and believe/trust everyone, you can’t (always) expected that they trusted you and will be honest to you. -Some people are easy to get along and some are not (it take times to be friends with), so be tolerate and don’t just shove them away cause they look cold (unfriendly) KEEP IN MIND THIS! Results may vary in any of the stuff’s I’ve wrote (this just a opinion of one people, not the entire human race :P) , so please take it with caution and I hope it will be useful to you (somedays)