Being a single mother isn’t a matter after all
Women are still as seen as a side, a mute, and a minority in the social stigma that given by the social groups. In some societies, a woman just will be ‘a woman’ who will end up in around that called as ‘home’, which the realism of women seems like doing what the household did essentially.
Nevertheless, exactly what women can do beyond the expected of that reality, their privileged as human beings who preserve more than usual man is intriguing. It’s a sacred chore, an extraordinary charge that men cannot sphere.
Furthermore, they pretty much needed the women's presence. Through celebrating International Women’s Day, I belonging of women would tell the world that we can deserve better than we thought only as common of ‘a woman’ in society greatly further than – especially in the case from that women, there is a group of women who deserve superfluous, they are called as single mothers.
Although, we knew that being a single mother is not their choice but a situation where forced them. Here, between sparks of this stigma for women who deserve by their own – the stereotype of a human being who lives in the odd perspective of society put the single mother among the negative intention. But, through this writing, I would like to share an impression – why being a single mother isn’t matter at all.
However, some perspectives looked at women as the most vulnerable creature, as regarding Koch and Fulton that “the expectation of women as weak, concern on the gender stereotypes” (2011).
Despite, a woman sincerely can hold back millions of senses seems like a single mother who has the capability to sustain great tasks from the weary and pain of the prenatal phase, then, in delivering a new life who had full of a fated destiny.
Nonetheless, the hefty bond in raising that new life being the best of a human being. A dazzling moment that men cannot do, even if ‘Daddies’ could take a mother figure but it’s a little bit tricky caused a daddy cannot be altered with the motherly instinct.
Like men more want to be dominant and had selfishness, those are the natural characteristics since they were born and it is quite hard to harmonize what children wish.
Otherwise in some cases ‘Mommies’ could have done with it, transformed into a father figure for their child. They are exceedingly multi-tasking, it supposed like they can do everything. Is it right? –
Moreover, a number of journals said that a group of single mothers is triggered by stress easily but – isn’t it also emphasized and increased in their responsibility.
