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First Dates

15 April 2020   19:46 Diperbarui: 15 April 2020   20:24 12
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First dates can be the most awkward thing ever, or the best thing ever. It can also be everything in between. First dates are one of the most nerve wrecking things ever. There are three feeling when you are having first dates based on my experiences are awkward, embarrassed or maybe very impressed.

The first is awkward Maybe looking for material is very easy if the couple has the same hobby. But if couples don't have anything in common, you will be awkward when chatting with them. Body movements are a reflection of emotions within. Usually, when feeling awkward with a first date, body language speaks. Feeling awkward or nervous is usually shown by eating too fast or talking fast. Initial impressions that should be shown are confidence, calm and relaxed.

The second embarrassed means feeling ashamed or shy of something and worried about what other people will think of you. Don't be shy to ask something like ask about him is not sick, but you must pay attention so as not to appear to interrogate him, ask light things. For example you can ask where he works, what kind of music he likes, and so on. Remember, don't ask questions that are too personal. That's not cool, especially for a first date. Melt the atmosphere with a little nostalgia. Like some things you might have experienced.

The last is make your first date very impressed with clothes that are neat and in accordance with the atmosphere. If you and your date are planning to go to an expensive restaurant or other fancy place, wear elegant clothes like a beautiful dress or a cool suit. If you want to spend some time in a more casual place like cinema or miniature golf, wear casual clothes that make your appearance stand out.

Avoid overly ambitious dressing for example by playing too many colours. For the first date it is better to choose neutral, classic and safe colours. The conclusion Initial impressions that should be shown are confidence don't awkward, embarrassed, keep calm and relaxed. Talk in moderation to liven up the atmosphere and use costumes in accordance with the place you will visit with the crush not to get the wrong costume because it can make your first date feel embarrassing.

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